“If you live marriage as God wishes you to, in a holy way, your house will be a bright and cheerful home, full of peace and joy.” – St. Josemaria, Christ is Passing By

As St. Josemaria states in Christ is Passing By, we have a very special opportunity to bring about happiness and joy within our families and amongst our friends by creating bright and cheerful homes. Whether we’ve got several little children running around, experiencing being empty nesters, or are pursuing relationships outside of the home, there are several ways we can bring cheerfulness and light to those around us. Here are several ways of creating a bright and cheerful home that will bring your family and friends joy and peace!

Routines

Routines aren’t just helpful for children! They lay the groundwork for a well-functioning, peaceful home. Whether it’s a morning routine that involves a family prayer, setting aside time for cleaning, or a regular family dinner, routines help everyone feel grounded. When those living together are on the same page, the potential for disagreements or miscommunication is minimized. Plus, a family that prays, eats, and shares time together regularly creates deeper bonds and more opportunities for joy.

Simplicity + Order

While routines lay the foundation for a well-functioning household, simplicity and order are key to maintaining a calm, peaceful environment. Studies have shown that increased clutter and disorganization in the home actually instills more stress within the family and decreases productivity levels in the individual. We may find that the mess is overwhelming to even begin cleaning, but starting small and creating a checklist will help alleviate the feeling of discouragement. There are more ways to begin decluttering your home, and by bringing a beautiful aesthetic into the space, your home will surely be a place of welcome and joy.

Hospitality

Opening your home to others in your family and communities gives you the opportunity to serve your neighbor and show your children the beauty of community. Taking special care to set the table, making a delicious meal, and providing great conversation is just another way to create that bright and cheerful home. Hospitality begins in the home as you teach your children the importance of sharing a meal and listening to one another!

Generosity

And what ties all of these aspects of creating a bright and cheerful home together? Generosity! Demonstrating the desire to serve others and give in meaningful ways brings a joy to the home that is unmatched. When we are intentional with service, choose to offer up our preferences for others, and consider others’ desires over our own, we are examples of happy and joy-filled Christians. 

When you consider how you’d like your home to look and feel, think of that beautiful quote from St. Josemaria about creating a bright and cheerful home! Start by incorporating routines, finding ways to simplify and create order, share your home with others, and pursue a generous spirit.